"how often do you think happily about your partner when you're apart?"
what came up for you also gives answers to the question 'how happy are you - right this moment - in your relationship, partnership, marriage?
the answers most couples are looking for though are to other questions:
what drives us apart?
how can I deal with all the resentment, sadness and anger I accumulated over the last months .. years?
how can we change direction? how to get closer again?
conflict is inevitable, blame and violence are - Rosenberg
the path to healing your relationship can be found while - as a couple - exploring your answers to questions like ..
what do you remember about your first date?
what do you say when you are too angry to continue a discussion?
name a shared goal in your relationship
what is one of your partner's dreams?
name a difficult moment you have overcome as a couple
.. guided and supported by the tools Marshall B. Rosenberg, John Gottman and Pema Chödrön have on offer: Nonviolent Communication, The Relationship House and Tonglen.
compatibility isn't something you have.
it's something you make
the Gottman institute
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